Facials and Sexual Politics
Few sex acts draw more ire than the facial. Facials are degrading, we’re told; they’re all about power. (This never stopped other activities from being mutually fulfilling, of course. BDSM anyone?)
The criticism comes down to a profound lack of sexual imagination: “Well I don’t do this,” says your typically inhibited North American female, “so no one else of my gender could possibly enjoy it.”
Fuck that. I’ve met women who like facials, who even (gasp) ask for them—just as I’ve met women who like to swallow come, who like to be pissed on, who prefer anal sex to vaginal sex. The people who put forth the anti-facials argument sound no different than the homophobic troglodytes who insist that any male who enjoys anal play has caught “the gay.”
And a news flash to those who’ve never eaten pussy. If you do it right you end up with a face full of girl jizz. How degrading!
Bringing sexual politics into the bedroom is so 20th century; these days there’s more variation within the genders than between them. So don’t worry about what anyone else likes or doesn’t like—go ahead and have a blast. (Image via alt.binaries.nospam.multimedia.facials)
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StripGoddess | Dec 15, 12:44 AM | #
I don’t necessarily enjoy the facial itself (though they’re not that bad). What I get off on is making the guy’s fantasy come true. If he wants to jizz on my face, and I know it is not just some sort of power trip he’s on, then I’ll let him splatter my face with as much as he can unload.I don’t understand for the life of me (welll, actually I do) why some people won’t try something sexual, at least once. I mean, what do you have to lose? If you don’t like it, try it once more and then don’t do it again if you still don’t.
I agree with your assessment! ;-)
Lex | Dec 15, 12:48 AM | #
Word.brad | Dec 15, 08:05 PM | #
Definitly a valid statment that some women want to get a facial and/or swallow. I’m lucky enough to know one. But my complaint, and this applies to all areas of porn, is that you can tell if the actresses really enjoy it and it sucks when they do things that they obviously don’t really enjoy. Assuming a low level of acting ability across the broader porn spectrum, you can see what the girls really like. Nothing is worse than watching a girl-girl scene when one of the girls obviously isn’t getting anything but a paycheck out of it. Same goes for facials.It's okay to say no | Feb 23, 02:02 PM | #
Would it be crazy that some people don’t want to try watersports, what about scat (pooing on each other)? There is no need for anyone to try everything once. That’s preposterous and shows no boundaries for your sexual safety. Understandably in an intimate relationship a person is more open to trying new things, but certainly this doesn’t mean anything and everything and makes them a prude because they have personal objectivity and respect for their boundaries..
Facials are degarding in this person’s eyes. They do nothing for me, I don’t need to put myself through any kind of act that gave me the first instinct of supreme sexual depravity which I do not get off of, but good luck to someone else with that.